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Well he's only done that once and apologized to me. My phone has a lock so he couldnt get in. With out my permission. So it was like a attempt to try to get in. I don't let anyone touch my phone except my family especially my dad I let him touch cuz he's the one who bought it for me and pays it. In facted don't even touch my boyfriends I don't even go through his . I have a little trust issues mine is not nearly as bad as his bad as his 😢

Hi Kristin. I need help. My boyfriend has trust issues and he accuses me sometimes. He accuses me today he was shouting and swearing at me making me cry on the phone. He said it's affecting his trust I guess I'm losing his trust 😢😢😢 he's hurting me 😢😢😢 I'm dealing with some kind of drama there's others bullying me. But my boyfriend is not handling it the right way. He's yelling on the phone he's swearing at me 😢😢 he's been hurting me make me cry too much. With all this agruing. He's asking if I'm there but I'm not calm😢 I'm still crying. 😢😢😢 I'm being accused.

Threesomes and more. Are the devils way to entice sinful behaviors . And there's spiritual consequences . Sin must be punished .. Whoremongers have no part of the kingdom of heaven.

I told my wife I wanted a 3 summer and she isn't really into it but she never said no. I want to encourage her to try it but I didn't want to pressure her into it . What can I do

Yes, let’s take the stigma out of threesomes. While you’re at it, you can take the stigma out of divorce as well. Kristin, stop calling yourself a relationship coach. You’re now a divorce coach.

I have a question my wife after 6 years all of a sudden denied me use her phone when all I was trying to do was send money to my mom also since my phone died and she changed her password randomly when she knows mine and I give her my phone without an issue now she’s like you don’t need to know my password why is this

How about yout bf/gf live streaming. Its way worse than Facebook dms and texts. Its opening the door and giving live easy acess to the talking flirting and inbox messages. I think it is a right snd and wrong answer here in this case. Its totally wrong. It opens up too many outside issue's

Your explanation is from the experienced

Please I need help asap😢 my partner thinks I have been cheating on him😢 its a battle everyday ..he thinks I don't need self time so when I had a job or when I went to parks to have a moment to myself that in that he thought I was meeting up with men..we are at a stale mate and I've done everything you have suggested can I get a personal text or call ..I evolved my entire life around him even have a child with him to show more dedication

Im sorry im sorry im sorry im sorry im sorry im sorry im sorry im sorry Im sorry im sorry im sorry im sorry im sorry I'm sorry im sorry im sorry im sorry im sorry im sorry im sorry im sorry im sorry. -To all ive hurt..

Idk I’ve always had this fantasy with my husband,us with another woman. As a teen I engaged with females. For me it’s a fantasy and I would want to make it true with my husband no one else. Build memories, and I just feel like it’ll deepen our bond. I want the best times with my best friend

II will not respect anyone who does not have respect for themselves…

Sister IN>Laws

I want to feel closer to them but I know I am not entitled to being close to them so its hard to bring up my needs because its not guaranteed they will change and its not guaranteed they will respond well. There is a lot of uncertainty and the whole thing causes me fear and stress because I don't want to pour my heart out and its met with zero compassion and understanding.

I feel he has contempt for me, from the beginning of the relationship. What can I do? Because he says he doesn't feel that..

This was really pedantic and boring, sounded like nagging even with your tone

Tip for western men, just date a good African woman. None of this BS will even come up

Married 24yrs. My husband has known this woman since they were young him in his teens an her in her early 20s 9yrs age difference. He calls her Mom. She has seen him thru 3 marriages (I'm the 3rd) he use to mention to me things he told her about his other wife's. She was at our wedding , she questioned him about US. of course I found out about things 20 yrs later, he has always talk to her on the phone visit her where she lives. I didn't think anything of it until these last 3yrs. He has been emotional absent for 15 plus yrs in OUR marriage . I'd try an talk to him about our issues an all I would ever get were vague answers an the whole conversation would always be all one-sided. But he has NEVER EVER HAD a problem talking to her and TELLING her things he shoukd be telling me. There's more an more. But that's the list. IM A MESS

always always go with your gut feelings. Its usually right. Stop the endless worry until its an actual feeling you have. Worked for me for years

They don't hate you... they hate themselves. They'll blame anyone available. Let's not normalize saying men hate Us. We didn't make their life suck.

I’m floored how you are explaining this!

Kristen you are amazing. I googled how I can respond to my boyfriend who is being manipulative and your video came up. It’s my relationship to a T

How about withholding the identities of her orbiting friends? As in: -Who is texting you to ask you in a date while having a boyfriend? -Oh this is Mark, he is just a friend don't worry about him. -Aha, but who is he? -I honestly can't tell you. Hahahahahaha. In my list this is a BIG secret, all of her orbitings are small dirty little secrets, not just leave run for the hills.

So my wife was talking to a ex a few years back. Swears there was no sex. Only talked about little things. Then little by little she reveals more. Then today she says she was telling him how unhappy she was in our marriage. I don't feel like I'm getting any truth out of her or just partial truths that won't reveal actual sex. How do I navigate this? Please help.

How did you go from giving relationship advice to eating your face off online?😳😭

From all the research I’ve done before my boyfriend and I took a break (starting today ironically) the advice given was to give a check in date because having a indefinite break could cause more harm and anxiety than good. Of course at the check in the couple can always agree to extend it. We decided no contact for 2 weeks unless one of us is going out. So that we know what setting our partner is in. But he’s broken no contact a few times today. I had to remind him that it defeats the purpose of a break and no contact. Then 2 hours later he sent me a pic asking if I had left my sunglasses. Which obviously I did. I’m wondering if he’s having a harder time with it than I am and he was the one who said we needed a break. I’m so confused. I haven’t even cried. It was mutual and we did set ground rules. But surprisingly it’s been fairly easy today but I feel it’s been the opposite for him.

Western women's thinking levels 🤔

Partner accuses because s/he is the devil. The devil is the accuser /slanderer.... Get away from there 'people' - they're wolves

I learnt from past experiences to IMMEDIATELY CUT TIES WITH FALSE ACCUSERS.

Okay but how do I express how I'm feeling 😭 I don't know I've never understood that...

Oh my. Such a big one. Don’t discuss negative aspects of your relationship often with family. They will take your side and start not liking your spouse! Unless you are being emotionally or physically abused, keep that other stuff private!!

Preach! Sista!!!

Does your partner if you have one have they always supported your You Tube Channel? Thank you just found you today 😊

I'm just asking myself did he love me really?

Yes I am in Real Estate. Every guy I talk to my boyfriend thinks I am cheating on him.

My husband had my phone next to him all night long. My kid had been using it to watch videos and just left it there. When I woke up I realized, he never woild do that so I woke him up (we’ve been having issues) and I was like, let me see your phone. (I’ve never been the jealous type, always trusted him, 2 kids and married, never done this before) he wouldn’t show me his phone. WHY. Because he’s hiding something

Pure BS. Someone telling us that there are no reactions to choices and no consequences. Why, why try to convince anyone to do stupid.

I would to have an affair. Before it could get emotional

my girlfriend insisted me to take a break from relationship aftert 2 months I realise that I feel much better without her

How do you find a voluntary women to partake a 3 some with my wife

my bf DOES NOT hate me, he loves me so much

Anytime they want to start problems, it makes me and my spouse stronger. We refuse to let them destroy our happiness

People try their best to ensure that their partner stays only theirs...but relationships are so complex...there is only so much a person can do....and people get love, connection, support, euphoria, validation and desire from multiple people and not only their partner....hence would you lable it as an affair and cheating....

A cohabitating relationship is not a committed relationship. Covenant marriage is. Spouses are not "significant others," they are legitimate spouses.

It's not alway the husband call out the wife too

I have realised that just observing a guy go silent and how long it takes for him to reengage is a good way to figure out how emotionally mature he is. If he doesn’t talk for 1 week straight, that’s a big sign that he is not mature enough to be in a relationship. Let him know that’s not gonna work long term and be willing to walk away. My mum used to give me silent treatment all the time and that hurt me a lot. I won’t allow my partner to do the same to me!

I’m sorry but if I could no longer pick up my husband’s phone at random and my finger print was taken off the security thing, I WOULD FILE FOR DIVORCE! PERIOD!!!

I still cant believe what happened it was all shocked and really the worst thing ever , i met her online she was super sweet and then blocked me promising me she'll come back and stuff and that she's doing it for our best it was 2 months ago , and then i had to comment with her on my yt channel until it got worse and i was abt to kill myself and i sent her a text knowing she wouldn't respond but she did in hours later she sent me a super long essay telling me she's sorry and that she's the worst person ever fr and wish if she never met me so she couldn't hurt me , and that do not do this to urself think about your family and friends , i thought it got really better after that , then i sent her a greet in Instagram in few days later and wanted to make sure everything is ok then we had very bad days i mean she made me have them for like 2 days then on sat 6/24 we had a long call and essays a lot she was drawing my name on the call and everything and sent me the photos we took before and everything sweet .. then i blocked her and tried hoping I'll finally do it and not fail again, i started joining her everyday day on Roblox , even before that she sent me too many long essays about me and social media and ppl and and trying to support me like she wasn't trying to say something sweet... Anyways we were playing roblox everything good , then i started talking to her on dc and whatsapp too from 13 days wish i never did .... Everything was kinda great ig.... She was still having feelings , since monday someone was using her phone and it was one of her family all long time fr , and i had to wait untill she comes back and she texted me and told me she got back her old ig acc and sent me a ss of our old chat and her vm there... We played roblox then i went to gym and came back , last friday she sent the longest essay ever trying to convince me i have to leave her for my own best and stuff she kept begging me for over an hour... Anyways so after i came back from gym she wasn't active on roblox and i texted her then mean words cuz i was hurt and she said " i was doing my bed - if you really hate me that much and dont care at all and don't love me just leave me i know you want to do that i know you have very bad emotional things adham me too but this isn't the first time think about it ", then i sent her 15mins vm and she listened to them all and said she wanna text but she's tired of this and she's exhausted , and it was the last day she was sweet with me even when came at 12am on Tuesday she was kinda mean " meh idk i don't feel well actually , i was on my friends house asleep , ok but let me get a cup of tea plz? , i read what you sent on dc iam sorry for the way he's been treating you like shit and dont say that iam the phase here not you please be ok and yes i changed somethings in my dc acc gn stay strong" then i texted her at the moment she didn't see it it was the last time she really was kind , yesterday I've been waiting untill she comes back i saw her playing on roblox at 11pm so i said bad words cuz i was extremely hurt fr but not that mean like curse , and i kept calling her a lot she saw them all then blocked me forever on WhatsApp and my mom's too , and i just found her both ig accs today tried to text her and mention her in a story she didn't opened it yet but iam sure if she did or will she will block me there too... , and then i knew her tiktok acc she had over 11k followers and had very religious vids , i talked to her friend and he told me she said only gn yesterday at 5am , and then he made a gc with me and her I told her did you read what i sent ? She said where? you sent to me everywhere and no i didn't read and i wont , i dont want to do anything with you anymore you harrased me and my family and my friends this is my last message please dont contact me anymore , i tried to just be kind and understanding what's going on cuz it's been only one or 2 days she left the gc and both blocked me and left the server after me writing to her for 20 mins.... , i just cant believe all of this i met her on 5/29 , we had too many chemistry things and fate and i can't play with her on roblox anymore.... , idk what to do she knows iam hurt and completely dead but she didn't seem to care anymore.... Idk ... How?.... I am still shocked really if i had everything she said before I'd ofc type it here but i deleted everything... She always promised me to not be an ex i wish i listened to her on Friday abt leaving her i cant breathe yet i swear and my kitty lexi always reminds me of her too.... Idk what to do... I wanna kms fr fr idk what to do i have her everything and i had too many things with her it's the closest person i really got and someone really unique she doesn't have someone else or anything and i think she completely hates me BUT WHY! WHY THE FUCK WHAT THE FUCK DID I DO?! I really wanna kill myself and get free from all that pain it would take me over 6 or 7 months to get over her fr... But as i said i know her roblox her number her email her ig both accounts her dc her tiktok . i tried to ask her just to change them and make it easy for me to move on.. she didn't.... And she wont... This is extremely impossible for me idk how i can do this she always helped me getting out of social media and always supported me in life and religion and stuff she never seemed toxic to me...idk what else i can say i wish i could say more i can't even cry since my heart is very broken and it doesn't let me...

As a mother in law here I would just like to share what it feels like from my end. We as moms have the wonderful blessing to raise these men/women and we take this responsibility with great love and happiness. We have hopes and dreams for our children. My son and I were always very close and shared a lot of laughs, we had talks about his future and I was there for him. He met the ONE and slowly I felt him slipping away and it hurt because I thought he stopped loving me, stopped needing me and I felt like I was let go of the most important ,best job in the world..raising my son. I was lost and I was very sad. My son just got married and I see the love in their eyes and in their actions and they are perfect for each other. My daughter in law and I get along fine but we are not as close as I would like to be. I am working on that the best that I can.I truly do not intervene in their lives and I hold off on sending texts to them and just letting them be.. I am making a conscious effort to let them live their lives but I would be lying if I said I didn't miss my son and miss the role I used to play. It's very hard ,so daughter in laws please TRY to understand what we as moms are going through We are essentially letting our sons go and that is very,very hard and we are struggling so please give us grace and please be patient. I know his relationship with you is and should be the most important one in his life but we are stepping down from our role and like I said it's tough!! VERY tough!! Mutual respect, mutual understanding, see each other's points of views and just seeing all the good in each other will go miles. We do have at least one very important thing in common....my son/your husband Good luck everyone!

By looking at you I already know it’s def vonsided